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Create a New Image
Ever thought about creating a new image? A new look. A new behaviour. A new kind of life. Let’s start to do it.
Do you know how you want to look? Did you think about that or thought that others are prettier? It is about how you see yourself and what you do with it. Look at yourself in the mirror and then decide if there is anything you want to change about yourself and then look for images for your new you.
Would you like to be more muscular? Get free weights and start to workout 3 to 4 times a week for about an hour. It can be less, if you workout regularly, it will bring results.
Look for images of people who have the figure you would like to have in the internet and save them in a file called ‘Me and My Dream Life’.
What about your haircut or hair color? Go to a hair stylist and get another haircut. A new haircut can make a big difference in the way you look.
How do you want to be dressed? Search designers and look for outfits you would like to wear. Save images in the ‘Me and My Dream Life’ folder.
What this is all about? You are on the way to build a new image of yourself. But wait, we are not finished yet. Your new you needs a home, a car and whatever else you want to get from your dream into your reality. How you will do this? You will make a mind movies with the images and with every day watching your mind movie, you will see yourself the way you now plan that you want to be. The trick is that you start where you want to end up.
You can also think about your behaviour. How do you want to speak? Do you want to change your voice? With some exercise you can easily change your voice and the way you speak. At the beginning you have to think of how you want to speak, until it get’s automatic, which means that your subconscious mind will have taken over and will control your voice for you.
How do you want to behave when you go to your office, when meet with your friends, when you go to a restaurant, café or bar, when you enter a store, when you live in a hotel? Think about it and visualize the way you want to behave. Again, with some exercise you will succeed.
We now come to your new home. Where and how do you want to live? You can buy a magazine with interior design or you can look for images in the internet. Save images of homes you really like and save them in your ‘Me and My Dream Life’ folder. Do the same looking for the car or cars you want to drive.
Create A New Image Changing Your Look and Your Appearance
Do you have an own image? When someone has to describe you: Would he say: Well he (or she) is of average height, he is not fat and not thin, brown hair worn straight, dressed with jeans and a light colored shirt.
How many millions of people could be describe that way? I don’t know how many millions. If there is nothing special about you, you have to think to create your own iamge.
Of whom do you think if you read these short desctipions?
He is a great musician and always wears outrageous eyeglasses. Who is that? You immediately know, don’t you!
She is a great singer and wears the most sexy outfits on stage and her hair is platinum blond. She is a Marilyn Monroe type.
He wears a black suit and a silver-grey tie. There is something special about his appearance. The moment he enters the restaurant, you know it’s him.
She has a classic style, always very well dressed and when she enters a restaurant, people who see her, hold their breath.
I recently was at an open day of a dermatologist and wanted to meet there with a girl friend. I was asked, if I can be shown around. I said that I am waiting for someone. I was asked if I can describe this person. “She fills the room with her appearance, though she is not overweight. You just know it’s her.” I was two rooms away from the entrance and explained something about scarce treatment, when my friend was brought in. The lady who brought her, said: I immediately knew it’s her.
Another time I met with a girl friend who has very long, straight, quite light blong hair. She was recognized immediately.
Do you have a specific image? Is there anything which would make you stand out of others?
If you don’t have this strong appearance as this girl friend of mine, you can make a difference with something about you or your outfit. Think about something which you would hold on day by day over a long period of time and think that you create your own image.
It could be a certain haircut. It might not be anything fashionable, but something which would make it easy to describe you. It could be a mark in your face, which is special about you. If you are a woman, you can paint it on to your face. It could be that you always wear a colourful silk scarf around your neck. It could be a makeup which is out of the usual. It could be something about your tie. That it has a specific color or desing. It could be the way you walk.
For women this is easier. If you are a woman, you could make your lips look large to stand out. You could wear a band in your hair. A hair color which is out of the usual. Just think that it must be something to which you stick for many years.
You could wear jeans and a T-shirt, which has something written on it. You could wear a hat or cap in a certain color.
Think about famous people and what makes each of them stand out, if they are seen on a photo. All of them have created their own image. Some of them had someone who created their image for them. Others thought about creating an own image themselves.
Think about what could make you different from others and make it your own image, something which would describe you that when you enter a room filled with people that others know that this must be the person, who is awaited from someone.
You don’t have to stick to one specific image throughout your life. You can make image changes. But for now, create your first own image.
Create your own image and stick to it!
How To Stand Out
How to stand out is done with your distinct characteristic, which can be anything that makes you be different from others. And stand out in marketing.
It is one certain characteristic about a person that brings him the success above others.
Every person is unique. Every person has one quality, which no one else has. Every person has a distinct way to speak, to move and to behave. All this makes him be special and unique and one or more of these characteristics makes him stand out.
Out of thousands you can find that one specific person you are looking for. This is the uniqueness of each of us. And when I say uniqueness, I do not mean fingerprints or the DNS. I mean, what is easily seen or heard.
There are actors from whom you only need to see the mouth and you know who it is. It might be one word and you know who has spoken this word. It can be a certain smile or frequently nodding while speaking, it can be a talent or skill that someone stands out about others,
There is not only one distinction, which makes you different from anyone else worldwide.
+ I want you to think about your body, your face, your appearance, your voice and write down what is different from others. For example: you are very thin or quite muscular, you have beautiful blue eyes,…..
+ Think about what others are telling you, what is special about you, and I mean positive and negative characteristics. You can make something about you that appears to you to be a negative characteristic to be your very special something that makes you stand out and might make you successul.
+ What is it, what you are good in? Everyone has something he loves to do and is good in. It can be anything: organizing, cooking, speaking, leading…….
Whatever you do in live, take advantage of this special something, which makes you stand out and make it to be your BRAND.
If you are in the internet business, think of this and use it in marketing. If it is voluminous lips, paint them fully out with a garish color. If it is that you are a funny person, be funny in your writing and your videos. But never try to be funny, if you usually are not. Stay who you are and be aware of your uniqueness.
With me it is a certain calmness, which I radiate and people near me get calm quite quickly. Some people do not enjoy this characteristic of me. It is actually people I don’t like to have near me and I usually don’t draw them toward me. It is this certain calmness about me, which makes me be good at doing certain things.
Now think about people who are very successful and what characteristic has made them stand out and be successful.
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