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To Become Successful In Life
Become Successful In Life With This Easy Technique
Become successful in life with the push of a button set as a conditioned stimulus.
The more often you feel being successful, the more often you will be successful.
The reason for this is that your subconscious mind understands feelings and reacts toward it. In other words with feelings you can get in contact with your subconscious mind and send it clear commands, which it will execute the best way possible.
The subconscious mind is kind of a super mind. It does fulfil commands given to it. Commands have to be send to the subconscious mind repetitively until it reacts in fulfilling the command. The subconscious mind is programmed from early childhood on with repetitive commands that are given by parents, teachers and environment. The change the programming of the subconscious mind is done again by repetitions.
How many repetitions are necessary to change a solidly set command depends how
deep it is set. If a command has been given quite recently it will be easier to change it in comparison to a command that has been given many years ago and has been repeated often times since it was given the first time. In this case it can take weeks if not months of repetitions of the wanted command to change it.
You can control your feelings with some effort. If you force your face into a smile repetitively, you will automatically smile without effort after some time.
You can set a stimulus to achieve a certain reaction. With repetitions you can condition this certain stimulus to always achieve this certain reaction whenever applied.
You can control your feelings without much effort with the help of a physical sign that you have set as a conditioned stimulus, which you push to feel the way you want to feel. You can setup several of those conditioned stimuli each for another beneficial feeling. You first have to set a stimulus for a certain feeling, which shall become the reaction to that stimulus.
If you want to become successful, think back to a situation when you had a success, concentrate on that moment, try to get the feeling from this previous time of being successful and set a stimulus for it. Repeat this stimulus plus the feeling often. After several repetitions the subconscious mind will start to react toward the feeling of being successful and bring success into your life.
With conditioned stimuli you can call up a certain feeling, being successful, feeling good, feeling joyful, feeling calm, being focused or whatever reaction you have combined with a certain stimulus.
These stimuli have to be easily done any time and anywhere. So it is best to press with one finger a part of the body as for example another finger. It should be something that doesn’t attract attention, which you do not want when you are not alone.
You can achieve a Big Goal
Achieve Big Goals conditioning yourself to believe that you can achieve big goals with this big goals achieving process.
You surely can achieve any big goal you set. Condition yourself to believe that you can succeed in whatever goal you plan to achieve.
If you don’t believe that you can achieve a certain goal, you will not achieve it no matter how hard you try. As soon as you believe to be able to make it, your frequency of vibration with change and as soon as your frequency of vibration is equal with the frequency of the set goal, you will be able to perceive the final result. This is the reason why people who are highly self confident, achieve their goals fast without very much effort.
How can you change your believe from not being able to achieve a big goal to believe that you can?
Start with a little goal that you can imagine to reach. Visualize that you have achieved it. Do what has to be done to achieve it. As soon as you have achieved this goal, set a next one that is a little bigger. Go on like this and start to understand that you can achieve any goal. With every goal you achieved, you will become more and more certain that you can accomplish any goal you set, visualize to have reached it and take actions to reach it.
Your old belief, that you can’t achieve a big goal will be overwritten by the new belief that you can.
You will also experience that your feelings about this belief changes and besides, your self confidence with be strengthened. It is your feelings that make you get active and do what it takes to reach a bigger goal. You surely have read that successful people enjoy to work, they don’t have to force themselves. Work is not at all a negative word for them, but rather actions to get what they have planned to achieve no matter how big their next goal is.
What could be the reasons that you don’t believe to be able to achieve a big goal?
Fear that you might try hard, but finally not make it.
The false belief that you can’t do a certain task that is necessary to achieve a big goal.
You are not able and can’t get yourself to imagine that you can achieve a big goal.
Not having the means to reach the results and not being able to imagine to be able to get what you need to achieve a big goal.
All which is holding you back to set a big goal are false beliefs that are embedded in the subconscious mind.
You have to condition yourself to believe that you can reach any big goal as explained above. As you visualize that you have achieved a newly set goal, you will get your subconscious mind understand that you want to achieve this goal and it will support you. Whenever you feel that something is blocking you to achieve a goal, get your subconscious mind in line with your consciously set intentions, it will then be easy to make it.
Now, let us assume that there are task necessary to be done to achieve a certain big goal. Successful people don’t think about if they can do it. If there is something they can’t do, they just get someone who can. Every person has his special talents, also you. So just don’t think of any obstacles on the way to achieve a big goal. You will pass it.
What is the big goal you want to achieve?
Write it down. Be precise, also about when you want to have it accomplished. Write down what has to be done to achieve it. Follow that plan and start doing step one of this plan. Visualize twice daily to accomplish this goal. Check the plan from time to time, cross out what has been already done and follow with the next step. Stick to the time frame you have set. And last but not least, be certain that you will accomplish your big goal on time.
Think Yourself Successful Now and in The Future
As you focus your thoughts on the future, you program your subcnscious mind
How many times did you think or talk about your future in the past few days? Think about it! And then think about how many times did you think or talk about the past in the past few days? Get your thinking about the now, especially while you work. You will be more productive.
If you are sick and you think about being sick, you reproduce your body with this sickness. Our body renews itself. Some parts are new every 24 hours and the whole body renews itself in seven years. The information you give it plays a big role. If you focus your thoughts on a healthy body, your cells will be renewed healthy.
José Carreras an internationally known tenor had leukaemia. During the time he was so sick that he couldn’t even speak, he saw himself singing. In his imagination he heard arias and imagined to sing them, he told the press in an interview after his come back. He added that he has received numerous letters from his fans, who wished him well and hoped he would recuperate and sing again and that those wishes have for sure also helped him. He knew that there are many people, who waited to hear him sing again. He thought himself healthy as he thought about the future and he came back. Just think that doctors were unsure if he would survive and found it possible that he would never again sing in an opera. He has thought himself healthy and has not lost his voice. This is a wonderful example of the power of the mind.
You absolutely can think yourself healthy and successful. If you are not very successful or whatever you dislike about your life and keep thinking about the past, nothing will change. You bring the past into the future. You duplicate your body with the sickness and you stay unsuccessful. Stop thinking about what is behind you. Let the past be past.
Think about the now and about the future. While you work, focus on what you do. In your breaks imagine into detail your life in the future. Make a mind movie which you watch in the morning, in the evening and have it run with the transparency turned high while you work on your computer or laptop. If you catch yourself thinking about the past, literally wipe if off from your thinking and replace it with a vision of your future. If you use mind movies this will be easy as you have images in your mind, which you imagine if you are away from your computer.
As you focus your thought on the future, you are actually programming your subconscious mind, the mind movie strengthens your thoughts on building a better future.
Make every evening a plan what you will do the next day. If you have no plans for a certain period of time, think about what you can do to make your day be great. Think that you can only improve the future. You can’t change the past. Make it a habit to only think about the future. Think from this moment to the next, from today to tomorrow, from this to the following week. Hold beautiful images in the mind, things and situations, which you want and enjoy.
Think about what you can do now that will make a difference in your life. You will experience the power of the mind. Don’t think backward, think forward!
What it Takes to Succeed in Life and Become Wealthy
Live a successful life!
It is strange that we believe that others are more intelligent. But when a person is explained what it takes to succeed and subsequently become wealthy, that he only has to learn a certain skill to appear intelligent, he doesn’t even start as he thinks of the time he has to put into it, is afraid it would take effort and fears to not make it. So he rather doesn’t start to pursue this goal for which he envies someone.
So many envy wealthy people and too often say that those wealthy people have been lucky. When one of them is explained that he has to work for several years without getting a regular salary, that he has to take risks such as investing his savings into a his own company, he backs off. He wouldn’t put years of his life working for HIMSELF, not knowing for sure if he can make it. He rather goes to work for someone else, HOPING that he wouldn’t lose his job before retiring.
Are you one of those who believes that they couldn’t do what others can? Okay, you might not have the talent of Pavarotti to become an opera singer, but if you had, would you go to singing school, learn text of a three hour opera and repeat arias over and over again, until they are part of you? Why shouldn’t you be able to live a successful life?
Are you one of those who believe that they couldn’t become as famous and wealthy as Thomas Edison or Bill Gates? Are you willing to do what it takes? Would you put days and nights through years to make thousands of tests, until you found what will make you famous and wealthy?
People who became famous and wealthy,who live a successful life, because they invented , which helped millions of others, did not think about becoming famous or wealthy. They just did what it takes to make their dream come true. They were passionate to invent something specific, which would change the life of many others. They did not know if they would succeed. Thousands of times they did not succeed, but they did not give up, but tried again and again and over and over again. Are you willing to do that?
Are you willing to do what it takes to live a successful life, which is giving some years of your life to make the life of others a better life? These people would pay you for it. Each single person would. Millions of them would. Do you want to continue to live on a salary or do you want to become wealthy?
Do you want to make more money and become wealthy? If yes, think about what you are willing to do and willing to give for it. Do what it takes and you will succeed and become wealthy.
If you really want something you can do it, if you are passionate about it. So passionate that you don’t think about the time you put into it and the risks you take. You just keep.on doing what is necessary to make it happen and to finally succeed.
Is there anyone whom you envy? Find out what it takes to become the person you envy. And then make it be your goal and pursue it, until you are what others will envy you for.
Do what it takes and you will succeed and become wealthy.
How to Communicate Effectively to beSuccessful in Life
Learn how to communicate effectively and improve your communication skills with easy to understand knowledge about how to raise interest of another person in you or the product you want to sell.
Today all members of Six Minutes to Success have been invited to attend an online course for free, which will soon be sold for several hundred dollars to non-members. The course is called ‘The X-Factor’ and it includes the secret to success in all areas of life.
During the introduction of this course I remembered a talk I had with my nephew more than ten years ago. I cannot tell you the content of the course, which is coming up next week and will take three weeks, as I might infringe rights, but I can tell you what I told my nephew, which is only one little part of the introduction of the X-Factor.
When I talked with my nephew, I was actually not aware that I give him advise in how to communicate effectively and improve success in all areas of life.
My nephew had interest to a special woman, but she overlooked him and she was in a relationship with another man. My nephew had tried everything he could think of to impress her, but without any success.
I asked him, if he has really shown interest to her or if he only tried to impress her, showing her what he has to offer and what was important to him. I explained to him, how I meant that.
When I meet a man, I said, and he tells me that I look great and that he earns so and so much money and drives that great car, I do not get the feeling that he is interested in me. When he asks me, what I enjoy, what books I read, what kind of music I like to listen to, what foods I like to eat, I can feel that he shows interest to me.
When you want to sell something and you tell the probable customer what the product does, he might not be interested in it, because what interests this person, is, what the product can do for him. To find out, what the product can do for a probable customer, you have to ask him questions. Not before you get to know this person a bit better, you can tell him what the product can do for him.
When you meet a woman/man, who interests you, you have to first ask questions to find out what might impress her/him. If you try to impress the other person with something, which is important for you, you can go very wrong and the other person might have only one wish: How can I get rid of that one!
One year later my nephew married this woman and he became a very successful salesperson.
The reason why you are not as successful as you want to be
How to communicate effectively in any situation
How to increase your sales
How to improve relationships
How to improve your success in all areas of life
Market Yourself to Become Successful
To market something with success it must be great in some way and it has to have benefits for others. Are you fulfilling the requirements?
Products, services, artists are marketed and why should you market yourself?
If you are looking for work, you are marketing yourself. If your company has your name, you have to market yourself and what you offer.
When you think of Microsoft, you also think of Bill Gates. When you talk about Apple computers, you will also mention Steve Jobs. He is the chairman and usually introduces new products to the public. Think of other companies or products from which you know the name of the founder and owner.
Look at all the successful internet marketing companies. They are all based on the name of a person. Frank Kern for example had some great products to offer, such as Mass Control. Everyone knew that it is a product he has put together and trusted that it is worth its money as Frank Kern has an impeccable reputation in his field. He has marketed himself and became successful. And so do others. Are you marketing yourself successfully?
If you go to a job interview, you don’t think that you are actually going to market yourself, but this is what it is. Before you will go to the interview you will make a few preparations. You will put together your CV, documents from your schools and from prior occupations and place it into a clean folder. You will choose a suit or some other appropriate clothes. You will make sure that clothes and shoes are clean. You will wash your hair and maybe go to a hairdresser to get a fresh cut. In the talk with the interviewer, you will do your best to make sure to show or tell that you fulfil all requirements of the job you apply for.
If you are a successful business man, you will be dressed appropriately on a daily basis and you will behave in a certain way.
What else can you do
You might have internet presence in your name such as a Facebook account and a Facebook page with a logo which includes your name or the initials. You might have presence in other social sites. You might have accounts in articles websites, where you publish articles in your field of expertise. You might have a website with your name included in the domain name. In the About page will be a short biography of you in which you emphasize on your life, your education, special talents and skills.
If you are an entrepreneur you have to target your marketing on to your company and still put emphasize on yourself.
Prepare your personal marketing strategy
To market yourself you need an image. The image will be strongly influenced by the kind of company you own.
What does the company do? Are you offering products, services or information? How will you get trust?
Who are the customers? Are you offering your products or services to other companies or to people? Are the customers older or younger people? Is it more men or more women? What kind of people is it and what do they await from you?
Will you be more successful wearing a suit or jeans and a shirt or any other outfit that fits in some way to what you offer or to your customers? Think about colors of your clothes.
How should you best appear in general: elegant, street smart, like a buddy or fresh and healthy.
Where in the internet should you be present to offer yourself and your products or services, build trust and communicate with customers.
Should you change how you speak, your voice and your behaviour? You can get training and exercise to speak in a certain way. You can get training and exercise to change your voice to make it stronger. You can exercise to change your behaviour a little. But it is best to be natural and stay what and who your are as this is what will be most believable. If you try to change your personality too much, it will appear strange and the result might be that you loose future customers.
Self confidence is very important in marketing yourself. What about your self confidence? If your self confidence is week, you can use subliminal recordings, which will be supportive to strengthen your self confidence.
Folllow and Live Your Dreams and You Will Succeed in Life
Always follow and live your dreams fully. Don’t compromise. Give all your time and heart following your dream and you will succeed.Â
I have just watched a documentation about Paulo Cuelho. I love to read his books and find his personality fascinating. In the interview he explained that he always followed his dreams.
He said that his father wanted him to study. He said to himself: “How should this work out, when I work as an engineer during daytime and in the evening I write my novels?” He said that one has to completely be what he is and not spread himself into different directions. He would be only part of each. Put your being into what you want to do and don’t put part of your time into one profession and another into what you love to do. Always follow your dreams and live your dreams!
Most people are spare parts of a company and spare parts of their own lives. On daytime they work in a profession that is acceptable from the point of view of the majority. Most of their leisure time they do what is acceptable to do from the point of view of the majority. And a tiny little bit of their time they dream of what they really would like and really love to do.
Most of us start to work in an acceptable profession, because we have to make money for our living and with the years many of us forget their dreams. They never follow them and never life them. This is sad!
It is not easy to pursue and follow your dreams, as at the beginning you don’t make enough money to pay for your living and often those dreams are something that brings many others to laugh. Of course it is not their dream. And those people who laugh, don’t stop to laugh until your dream turned into a big success. Until then, you have to go through a time of hardship.
As Paulo Cuelho did, you have to go through a time of hardship to make it possible to follow and fully live your dreams. It may be for some years. Compared to the years of your life those few years are not much.
For Paulo Cuelho it was quite a few very hard years in which he grew. He was forty when the first big success came into his life and it never stopped. He always went after his dreams and always stick to it and followed it. Today he is a millionaire, married with the woman he loved long before he could marry her.
Paulo Cuelho said: If you have a dream, follow and live it and live it with all your heart, put in all your time and your being into it and you will succeed.
Don’t even ask yourself if you should follow your dreams. Do it! Always follow your heart and follow your dreams.
How Many Times Have You been Successful In Life?
Did you ever ask yourself how many times you have been successful in life?
How many times have you been successful in life? If you think back, you feel great. Sadly, we don’t do that, we are driven achieve a new success.
It happens, but very rarely that I would think back to my big successes, but it never occured to me to think about all the little ones there were in my life. The reason why this is sad, I am going to explain.
I am writing about success, but I must admit that till today I did not properly think about what success can be. I thought about what it is. It is a success when you reach a goal.
We are happy, when we reach a goal and the euphoria about the success might stay for a few days, maybe weeks. But soon after we have reached a goal, this happiness and euphoria is gone. We have to constantly have a new goal and be driven to have a new success.
When you don’t have a new goal or don’t quickly find one, you are getting depressed. Sadly people then think of all the bad things of their life, instead of thinking about all the good there was and is and about how many successes they had in life.
We are all so great and so unique and have all been successful many time in our lives, but we don’t think about it. We have to do something to remember how many times we have been successful in life and get this wonderful feeling of having succeeded into this very moment. If we do so, we raise our frequency of vibration, which is the main ingredient to get this lightness of being which makes everything possible.
People who are able to manifest quickly whatever they want, are in this certain lightness of being, in which their frequency of vibration is very high. If you get yourself into this vibration, almost everything is possible and above all, you feel immensely great.
I recommend that you sit down and write out all you are happy about and all the little and big successes you have had in your life starting with your childhood till today. And make a note about how you felt back then.
I have learned bicycling. Oh, it was fun, when I was driving together with friends.
I have learned swimming. I remember, when I suddenly was sure that I wouldn’t drown, but felt the lightness of my body swimming out into the lake/ocean.
I finished high school. I remember, when I left the school after I passed the last exams, I felt being free. The knowledge of never having to go back, was so wonderful.
I felt great when I got my first salary. I could do with the money what I wanted and did not have to explain to my parents what for I wanted some money.
And so on. Continue this list and try to remember every little and big success you had in your life.
Then make one more list in which you write all you are thankful for.
I am happy and thankful that I have a beautiful apartment, a great partner……continue writing all you are thankful for.
When you are depressed one day, take this list and read it. It will make you feel great and it will give you this special feeling that you will achieve your next goal. It will renew this passion and euphoria, which you need to be driven to get on to succeed again.
Don’t forget all the successes you had in life, but still always have a new goal on which you work to achieve it. When you get back the euphoria and raise your frequency of vibration to get into the lightness of being, it will be easy to reach it.
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